ALL OVER THE PLACE
First I'd like to say hello to everyone. This is my first time ever starting a blog so if things seem a little off the wall or out in right field please bare with me. You see normally, I get a grip on my life by writing in my journal, this is something I've been doing since I was teenager. However, lately I've felt that it's just not enough. I realized that although it was theraputic, it wasn't helping me find answers to the various wrenches thrown into my life. Another reason is because I was reading my email from a friend of mine who had told me that the events in my life have inspired her to blog well I thought at first it was really cool but then I decided that if any bloging should be done on my life maybe I should be the one to do it. So here I am... You will find my blogs to touch on many subjects and I probably will not have any limitations. For right now I feel the need to fill you in on what's been going on in my "recent" past. So here it goes...
Where to start? I really don't know. Well, how about from when I moved down to Florida about two years ago. I'm a northern girl born and raised in NJ but consider to myself to be a true city girl (NY). I've lived a very fast paced life and decided that I wanted a change. So in January of 2006 me and my now ex fiance moved to Florida. We moved down here for many reasons but I now realize that all the reasons I moved weren't really valid reasons at all. To make a long story short things didn't really change between us and I finally hit my breaking and called off our engagement and left.
After that change in my life I met a wonderful person (Sean) who has been a real blessing in life. He is truly my other half, I don't think I've ever known what it was like to be happy with someone until I met him. We think the same about so many things, from personal values to music, etc.. and where we are opposite it is a positive thing in our lives. We started out really strong and for a short time there we did have some problems but we were able to get through them and I think those issues made us stronger.
I guess now would be a good time to fill you in on the problem(s) and where I am at now. I've decided to break it out into sections for much easier reading so stay posted and I'll have it up ASAP.
posted by: squirrelzone (reply)
post date: 05.06.08 (5:53 am)
Welcome to tBlog.
posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 05.06.08 (8:57 am)
Welcome to tBlog - good to have you aboard :)
posted by: barnabus1 (reply)
post date: 05.06.08 (12:44 pm)
Welcome aboard here!!! I think you'll like Tblog, as you meet some really good people, and they don't mind commenting on you're blog!!
I believe you had to get that first guy out of your life, so you could meet Mr. Right!!! Sounds like you've done really good on that score!!! Congrats!!!!
posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 05.08.08 (9:00 am)
My first read of what you have to say... One thought- I sure hope you do not require an involved relationship with a guy to be happy. I truly think that happiness is something to be found inside self, and it is requiring far too much of someone else for him/her to make you happy. Now, I'll read on and see what I can learn!
posted by: PooPotPie (reply)
post date: 05.08.08 (9:44 am)
Reply to: PastorDave
I didn't think that my entry implied my happiness was based on a relationship with a guy. I am completely happy with myself and they way my life is going overall. My boyfriend is someone that worked with for almost a year and we were somewhat work friends before anything happened. I don't require or expect him to make me happy but having him in my life has definately been a blessing. He adds a lot to the life that I already love.
So after reading the rest of my posts what have you learned?
posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 05.08.08 (9:53 am)
Reply to: PooPotPie
I'll be reading the others. Welcome to t-Blog. My comments are probably like most you will receive- they may have a kernal of something worthwhile, but likely are simply coffee-shop talk.
Hope you are doing well. Later today I will be visiting with a lady who moved here from New York several years ago. She's my favorite yankee!
posted by: Tim (reply)
post date: 05.10.08 (3:51 am)
Hey babe,
I would just stay away from the old mom...What she is doing is trying to drive a wedge between you and Sean. If she wants to be misreable and racist, let her do that by herself. You and sean needs to think about 2 people..you and sean, no one else. Life is way too short to try to make everyone happy, because in the midst of the effort to make everyone else happy, you two will be misreable and thats not where anyone needs to be. Your a nice person and sean is very lucky.